Los Angeles, CA – March 26, 2025 – Ally Lewber, a former star of Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules, has shared candid insights into her past relationship with ex-boyfriend James Kennedy, labeling it as “toxic” in a new video series. The exclusive revelation, first reported by People magazine in a post on X (@people) at 16:12 UTC, comes months after the couple’s highly publicized breakup in January 2025, following Kennedy’s arrest on domestic violence charges in December 2024.
Ally Lewber Calls James Kennedy Relationship ‘Toxic’ in New Video Series, Says She’s ‘Grateful’ to Be Out of It (Exclusive) https://t.co/9FFUPVX5Hw
— People (@people) March 26, 2025
In the video series, Lewber, 29, reflected on the challenges she faced during her nearly three-year relationship with Kennedy, a DJ and reality TV personality. “It was a toxic dynamic that I’m grateful to be out of,” she said, emphasizing her relief at moving forward. The couple’s split came after a tumultuous period, marked by Kennedy’s arrest in Burbank, California, for alleged domestic violence. Although Kennedy did not face criminal charges, the incident prompted Lewber to end the relationship, a decision she announced on Instagram Stories in January, where she expressed her continued support for Kennedy’s sobriety and healing journey.
Lewber and Kennedy’s romance began in 2022, with their relationship becoming a focal point on Vanderpump Rules during its tenth season. Fans watched as Lewber navigated the complexities of Kennedy’s social circle, which she described as “really weird” in a confessional interview on the show. The couple’s breakup, however, shed light on deeper issues, with Lewber now using her platform to discuss the emotional toll of their time together. “I’ve learned so much about myself through this experience,” she shared in the video, hinting at her focus on personal growth and healing.
Kennedy, 33, has since maintained a low profile, focusing on his DJ career and sobriety, as noted in a statement following the dropped charges. Meanwhile, Lewber’s openness about her journey has resonated with fans, many of whom have praised her for speaking out. The People article, which included a link to the full exclusive, quickly gained attention on X, sparking conversations about the challenges of relationships in the public eye.
As Lewber moves forward, her story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of self-reflection and resilience, offering hope to others navigating similar struggles in their own lives.